Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Dear Boys #29

Dear Dead-man Walking,
Yes, I am a sentimental old fool. 
So what if I cried a little??
It's just good to have you back.
Love, Jess
(And that smile! Mmm-hmm!!)


Hey, Hey, Good-Lookin'
How did this happen to me again??
Love, Jess


Dear A,
#howdoigetagirl #justlikethat
Love, Jess


Dear Captain America,
I would be willing to become more than an 
objective third party with no personal interest in the matter...
just sayin'...
Love, Jess


Dear Johnny Cash,
Apparently it is just not supposed to be 
*sigh*
Love, June


Dear Boys,
You make everything in my life a little bit better.
Here's to the next 5 months!
Make them good ones!!
Love, Your biggest fan


Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Dear Boys #28

I have had a really hard time putting my thoughts and feelings into words this week. I am apologizing now if this makes absolutely no sense at all.

Sunday I went to Church with my sister. It was her ward's conference and a member of the Stake Presidency taught the Relief Society lesson. In typical fashion, the lesson was a dating/marriage lesson. At first, I just rolled my eyes and sat back to half-heartedly listen. BUT, this was one of the best dating/marriage lessons I have heard in a long time. It really made me think.

He started out by having us list the "qualities" we look for in our future husband. Someone who: honors the Preisthood, values the temple, honest, respectful, good with children, sense of humor, attractive, patient, hard worker, etc. Then he asked what our "red flags" are. Things like: lazy, easy to anger, addictions (video games, drugs, workaholic, pornography), etc. One girl said, "How does he treat those who can do nothing for him in return?"

As I got thinking about this list, that seems pretty demanding. Almost unrealistic. But then I thought about a certain group of guys I know who live up to pretty much every single one of those things. (Not only are they all EXTREMELY attractive, but they are just GOOD guys all the way around. I really wouldn't mind dating ANY of them but that is just getting off topic.) They have given me hope in the male gender. 

Today's Dear Boys is a shout out to all those who DO live up to those expectations.

Dear Gentlemen, 

Thank you. I know girls can be kind of demanding, and critical, and crazy, and unrealistic at times. But thank you for doing what you should be doing. 

We watch you. All the time. And trust me, we notice things. 

We notice when you walk up to a complete stranger to help her carry heavy water jugs across the soccer field. 

We notice when you won't let us take the trash out to the dumpster alone because it is dark and not a very good neighborhood. 

We notice when you open building and car doors for us even when it's not a date. 

We notice when you carry things out to our car for us because it is heavy and we didn't even have to ask you to. 

We notice when you give up your seat on the couch so we don't have to sit on the floor in a skirt. 

We notice when you step up and give a Priesthood blessing even though you aren't our home teacher and it happens to be an especially inconvenient time for you. 

We notice when you are extremely excited (almost giddy) to have a ticket to attend the Priesthood session of General Conference live at the Conference Center. 

We notice when you show great care and compassion to your roommate who is having a hard time.

We notice and it reminds us that there are good guys out there who will step up and be the Sons of God Heavenly Father intended for them to be.

Love, Jess

Wednesday, October 09, 2013

Dear Boys #27/Wednesday Wonderfuls #4

I haven't done a Wednesday Wonderfuls in a long time and let's face it, there is a lot that is wonderful in life right now.


Luke Bryan Concert. What else needs to be said. AMAZING!!



 General Conference was wonderful, as usual. I always feel like everything is exactly what I need to hear. This time I got to spend both days (Saturday and Sunday) with some great friends hanging out and eating lots of good food. 
A few weeks ago I was able to attend a conference for my job and we stayed in the most amazing hotel room ever! It made me feel slightly guilty to be sitting in my jetted tub knowing my fellow teachers had to go to work the next day...

Now on to some Dear Boys!!

Dear MGM,
Mischief managed.
Love, Jess


Dear B,
You keep catching me by surprise.
Love, Jess


Hey, Hey Good Lookin'
Why must you torture me with your wonderfulness?
Love, Jess


Dear Captain America, 
I think we have had more awkward moments that good ones...
Love, Jess


Dear A,
I could get used to this.
Love, Jess
PS- You smell HEAVENLY!


Dear Flirty Meesen,
We are pretty cool.
Love, Grandma


Dear Boys,
16 days. I think I might make it. 16 days.
Love, Your biggest fan

Wednesday, October 02, 2013

Dear Boys #26

Hey, Hey Good Lookin'
I can't stop thinking about you...so I made shepherd's pie.
Love, Jess


Dear Shorty,
Just because there is a goalie doesn't mean I can't score!
Love, Jess


Dear Middle Man,
Glad you lived.
Love, Jess


Dear Shawn,
Flirt buddy=ok
Serious dating= NOT OK
Love, Gus


Dear John Wayne,
If only you were about 8 inches taller...*sigh*
Love, Jess


Dear Dr. Seuss, 
You are good for her.
Love, Jess


Dear Gentlemen, 
Just a hint: Girls talk. 
Open her door on the date, her friends know about it.
Don't open her door on the date, her friends know about it.
Do something great, her friends know about it.
Do something not so great, her friends know about it.
Choose wisely.
Love, Jess


Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Dear Boys #25

Dear Captain America,
Aca-awkward!!
Love, Jess


Hey, Hey Good Lookin'
Well, I feel sheepish... but no more freebies!
Love, Jess


Dear Barbie and Ken, 
I just threw up a little bit in my mouth.
Love, Jess 


Dear Middle Man, 
Keep a sharp eye out.
Love, Hitch


Dear B,
I'm thinking yes. Definitely yes.
Love, Jess


Dear Picasso,
Hmm.... Maybe. Maybe not. 
But more likely maybe.
Love, Jess

Dear Lovely Ladies, 
We need to keep this a weekly thing.
Love, Jess


Sunday, September 15, 2013

Your Custom Made Smile

I was struggling to find the motivation to write a Sunday post today, but really felt like I should. Then I went to ward prayer (a meeting Sunday nights in young single adult wards meant as a chance to start the week off with a spiritual thought and prayer for the ward).

The spiritual thought was shared by a young man who had the chance to meet with Sister Elaine S. Dalton (previous General Young Women's president). She talked to them about how each of us has a "custom made smile." 

We each have a chance to make a difference in the world, right here, right now. To support this thought, the young man shared the story of Esther from the Old Testament. 

When King Ahasuerus of Persia was looking for a new queen, he asked that all the fair young women of the kingdom come to the palace. Mordecai, a Jew who served in the palace, brought his niece, Esther. She was beautiful, and “the king loved Esther above all the women” (Esth. 2:17). She became his new queen.
The king placed a man named Haman over all the princes in his kingdom and ordered all the servants to bow before Haman. Mordecai refused to bow. This angered Haman, and when he discovered that Mordecai was a Jew, he decided to destroy all of the Jews.
Haman told the king that there was a people in his land who would not obey the laws and who, therefore, should be destroyed. The king agreed and offered a reward to those who would kill the Jews.
Esther and Mordecai realized that to save their people, Esther would have to go before the king and plead for them. This was a dangerous thing to do, because no one was to go before the king without being called. Esther asked that her people fast and pray for three days for her.
The fasting and prayers of her people gave the queen the courage to do what she needed to do. When she told the king of the wickedness of Haman, the king had him destroyed instead of Esther and her people.
I firmly believe each one of us has the power to accomplish something great at any moment in our lives. We are lead by the Holy Ghost to help those around us that are in need. Whether it be a simple hello, holding the door open, taking a meal to someone, helping someone move, being a good listener, or a shoulder to cry on. It may be that you are placed in a calling specifically to help someone grow or learn. You may be a roommate to someone who needs your love, support, and patience. It may be something you are recognized for or something you never realize you did. BUT YOU DID IT.

So, wear your custom smile, be yourself, and make a difference. 




Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Dear Boys #24

Dear Captain America,
Speaking as a completely objective third party observer with absolutely no personal interest in the matter...
Love, Jess


Hey, Hey Good Lookin'
I don't need to flirt with you. 
I will seduce you with my awkwardness...and sound effects. 
Love, Jess


Dear Captain, 
I feel better knowing that your real parents are just as upset as I am.
Love, Mother


Dear B, 
There may be something there that wasn't there before.
Love, Jess


Dear Barbie and Ken,
I just don't understand...
Love, Jess


Dear Single Boys Everywhere,
Just sayin'...
Love, Miss Jensen